Jul 13, 2022
In General Discussions
After "reducing" pain, of course, we have to study how to "increase" happiness. For example, take a child to get to know his car seat first—just like when we take a child to a new friend or to a new environment. Introduce its color, function, and purpose; take the car seat home to open the ventilation, which can disperse the smell of new volatile substances, and also allow children to have the opportunity to see the car seat often and establish a sense of familiarity with it. Know more about his exclusive seat. It's also a good idea for an older child to pick out his car seat together. If your child doesn't like riding in a car seat, you can deliberately make riding in a car seat associated with a good outcome, like going to a place your child likes to play. The child will be more willing to endure the discomfort of the journey, knowing that there are fun activities waiting for him. You can also prepare a toy that the child likes very much on the car seat, or play a story or song that he particularly likes, or tell a wonderful story at the Company banner design beginning, but save the second half of the story in the car and continue to talk, so that the child feels sitting There's a lot of fun going on in the car seat and it's a one-of-a-kind happy hour. There is another one, thank the child when he arrives at the destination, he has done a big favor to his parents...so that the parents can concentrate on driving, so that the whole family can reach the destination happily. It will also "increase" happiness. In particular, the child likes that he can help very much, that is his limited "ability" in the small world! This happy ending may make the child no longer timid about the next car seat, because "My help is very important to parents!" Let the child feel that I am important The above method also has a "theme" behind it: in the process of every intentional interaction with the child, the child can feel "my feeling is valued by parents" and "I am important". If the child often feels this way, then even if occasionally the child must be put in the car seat immediately, or the playground must be left immediately, or the toy that the child wants cannot be bought, even if Children are crying, but there must be many positive experiences in their hearts that they can tell themselves: "It's strange that Mom and Dad are different today." Instead of: "I'm not important, they don't care about me at all." "Good relationship" is accumulated on weekdays. When an emergency occurs, even if there is a small conflict in the parent-child relationship, it can be quickly repaired.